That seems to be the # 1 dislike among the ladies now iunderstand tact and censor myself pretty well but i am generally blunt & 2 the point not mean just honest would rather tell you the truth now & risk hurting your feelings a bit than lie to you & 4 sure hurt them alot more later Ladies can i get some imput?
That seems to be the # 1 dislike among the ladies now iunderstand tact and censor myself pretty well but i am generally blunt & 2 the point not mean just honest would rather tell you the truth now & risk hurting your feelings a bit than lie to you & 4 sure hurt them alot more later Ladies can i get some imput?
I totally agree! I would rather hear the truth upfront! I don;t like the lies andthe games. I have been single for 3 years now and I am surprised at all the "bs" out there! If you don't want to see someone tell them! I think when you lie you lead people on and have them belive you are a different person than what you really are. I was dating someone and would send him cards, bring him lunch, yet no feedback from him. I would hear how he didn't want me to walk away, he woule be a fool not to see it goes wqith him and I then I would mention getting together and it like I had the plague! I wasted my time and was more hurt that he was not man enough to just say he wasn't interested or was seeing someone else. I have had men tell me that they want what I am seeking and when it comes down to it all they want is their hand in my panties! I am actually giving up on dating for abit. I am just tired of the games, the lies, the bulls&^%!!
I totally agree! I would rather hear the truth upfront! I don;t like the lies andthe games. I have been single for 3 years now and I am surprised at all the "bs" out there! If you don't want to see someone tell them! I think when you lie you lead people on and have them belive you are a different person than what you really are. I was dating someone and would send him cards, bring him lunch, yet no feedback from him. I would hear how he didn't want me to walk away, he woule be a fool not to see it goes wqith him and I then I would mention getting together and it like I had the plague! I wasted my time and was more hurt that he was not man enough to just say he wasn't interested or was seeing someone else. I have had men tell me that they want what I am seeking and when it comes down to it all they want is their hand in my panties! I am actually giving up on dating for abit. I am just tired of the games, the lies, the bulls&^%!!
